wolfssl: add quic/ngtcp2 detection in cmake, and fix builds

- add QUIC/ngtcp2 detection in CMake with wolfSSL.

  Because wolfSSL uses zlib if available, move compression detection
  before TLS detection. (OpenSSL might also need this in the future.)

- wolfSSL 5.5.0 started using C99 types in its `quic.h` header, but it
  doesn't #include the necessary C99 header itself, breaking builds
  (unless another dependency pulled it by chance.) Add local workaround
  for it. For this to work with all build tools, we had to fix our
  header detection first. Ref: #10745

  Ref: 6ad5f6ecc1

Closes #10739

lib/curl_setup_once.h

@@ -69,6 +69,14 @@
 #include <unistd.h>
 #endif
 
+#ifdef USE_WOLFSSL
+#  if defined(HAVE_STDINT_H)
+#    include <stdint.h>
+#  elif defined(HAVE_INTTYPES_H)
+#    include <inttypes.h>
+#  endif
+#endif
+
 #ifdef __hpux
 #  if !defined(_XOPEN_SOURCE_EXTENDED) || defined(_KERNEL)
 #    ifdef _APP32_64BIT_OFF_T