build: fix -Wunused-macros warnings, and related tidy-ups

- fix internal macro `AN_APPLE_OS` reused between sources without
  resetting it. It may potentially have left the system sha256
  function unused.
- fix to define `WOLFSSL_OPTIONS_IGNORE_SYS` so that it always applies
  to wolfSSL headers, also during feature detection.
- md4, md5, sha256: simplify fallback logic.
- delete 20+ unused macros.
- scope or move macros to avoid `-Wunused-macros` warnings.
- examples: delete unused code.

The warning detects macros defined but not used within the same C
source. It does not warn for macros defined in headers. It also works
with unity builds, but to a lesser extent.

Closes #20593

docs/examples/log_failed_transfers.c

@@ -47,8 +47,6 @@
 
 #ifdef _WIN32
 #include <windows.h>
-#define strcasecmp _stricmp
-#define strncasecmp _strnicmp
 #define unlink _unlink
 #else
 #include <strings.h>