url: dns_entry related improvements

Replace Curl_resolv_unlock() with Curl_resolv_unlink():

-replace inuse member with refcount in Curl_dns_entry

- pass Curl_dns_entry ** to unlink, so it gets always cleared

- solve potential (but unlikley) UAF in FTP's handling of looked up
  Curl_dns_entry. Esp. do not use addr information after unlinking an entry.
  In reality, the unlink will not free memory, as the dns entry is still
  referenced by the hostcache. But this is not safe and relying on no other
  code pruning the cache in the meantime.

- pass permanent flag when adding a dns entry instead of fixing timestamp
  afterwards.

url.c: fold several static *resolve_* functions into one.

Closes #14195

lib/cf-socket.c

@@ -679,12 +679,13 @@ static CURLcode bindlocal(struct Curl_easy *data, struct connectdata *conn,
       conn->ip_version = ipver;
 
       if(h) {
+        int h_af = h->addr->ai_family;
         /* convert the resolved address, sizeof myhost >= INET_ADDRSTRLEN */
         Curl_printable_address(h->addr, myhost, sizeof(myhost));
         infof(data, "Name '%s' family %i resolved to '%s' family %i",
-              host, af, myhost, h->addr->ai_family);
-        Curl_resolv_unlock(data, h);
-        if(af != h->addr->ai_family) {
+              host, af, myhost, h_af);
+        Curl_resolv_unlink(data, &h); /* this will NULL, potential free h */
+        if(af != h_af) {
           /* bad IP version combo, signal the caller to try another address
              family if available */
           return CURLE_UNSUPPORTED_PROTOCOL;