NTLM: disable if DES support missing from OpenSSL or mbedTLS

Make autotools and cmake detect DES support in OpenSSL and mbedTLS.
Forward feature macros to C and omit NTLM from the feature preview list.
Use the feature macros in source. This ensure that `-V` output matches
the preview.

OpenSSL doesn't support DES when built with `no-des` or `no-deprecated`.
mbedTLS 4.x no longer supports it, and it's possible to disable it in
<4 with `scripts/config.py unset MBEDTLS_DES_C`.

Before this patch this worked for
mbedTLS 4 only, and with a regression for pending PR #16973.

Also:

- drop NTLM feature check from `curl_setup.h` in favour of autotools/
  cmake feature macros. This makes `curl_setup.h` no longer need
  to include an mbedTLS header, which in turn makes tests/server build
  without depending on mbedTLS.
  Fixing, in #16973:
  ```
  In file included from tests/server/first.h:40,
                   from bld/tests/server/servers.c:3:
  lib/curl_setup.h:741:10: fatal error: mbedtls/version.h: No such file or directory
    741 | #include <mbedtls/version.h>
        |          ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
  ```
  Ref: https://github.com/curl/curl/actions/runs/18689537893/job/53291322012?pr=16973
  Ref: #19181 (initial fix idea)
  Follow-up to 3a305831d1 #19077

- move back mbedTLS header include and version check from
  `curl_setup.h` to each source which consumes mbedTLS.

- GHA/http3-linux: drop workaround that disabled NTLM for
  `no-deprecated` OpenSSL builds.
  Follow-up to 006977859d #12384

- curl_ntlm_core: drop pointless macro `CURL_NTLM_NOT_SUPPORTED`.
  Follow-up to 006977859d #12384

Closes #19206

docs/INSTALL-CMAKE.md

@@ -491,9 +491,11 @@ the parent project, ideally in the "extra" find package redirect file:
 
 Available variables:
 
+- `HAVE_DES_ECB_ENCRYPT`:                   `DES_ecb_encrypt` present in OpenSSL (or fork).
 - `HAVE_GNUTLS_SRP`:                        `gnutls_srp_verifier` present in GnuTLS.
 - `HAVE_LDAP_INIT_FD`:                      `ldap_init_fd` present in LDAP library.
 - `HAVE_LDAP_URL_PARSE`:                    `ldap_url_parse` present in LDAP library.
+- `HAVE_MBEDTLS_DES_CRYPT_ECB`:             `mbedtls_des_crypt_ecb` present in mbedTLS <4.
 - `HAVE_OPENSSL_SRP`:                       `SSL_CTX_set_srp_username` present in OpenSSL (or fork).
 - `HAVE_QUICHE_CONN_SET_QLOG_FD`:           `quiche_conn_set_qlog_fd` present in quiche.
 - `HAVE_RUSTLS_SUPPORTED_HPKE`:             `rustls_supported_hpke` present in Rustls (unused if Rustls is detected via `pkg-config`).