lib: pass in 'struct Curl_easy *' to most functions

... in most cases instead of 'struct connectdata *' but in some cases in
addition to.

- We mostly operate on transfers and not connections.

- We need the transfer handle to log, store data and more. Everything in
  libcurl is driven by a transfer (the CURL * in the public API).

- This work clarifies and separates the transfers from the connections
  better.

- We should avoid "conn->data". Since individual connections can be used
  by many transfers when multiplexing, making sure that conn->data
  points to the current and correct transfer at all times is difficult
  and has been notoriously error-prone over the years. The goal is to
  ultimately remove the conn->data pointer for this reason.

Closes #6425

lib/multiif.h

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
  *                            | (__| |_| |  _ <| |___
  *                             \___|\___/|_| \_\_____|
  *
- * Copyright (C) 1998 - 2020, Daniel Stenberg, <daniel@haxx.se>, et al.
+ * Copyright (C) 1998 - 2021, Daniel Stenberg, <daniel@haxx.se>, et al.
  *
  * This software is licensed as described in the file COPYING, which
  * you should have received as part of this distribution. The terms
@@ -69,7 +69,7 @@ size_t Curl_multi_max_host_connections(struct Curl_multi *multi);
 /* Return the value of the CURLMOPT_MAX_TOTAL_CONNECTIONS option */
 size_t Curl_multi_max_total_connections(struct Curl_multi *multi);
 
-void Curl_multiuse_state(struct connectdata *conn,
+void Curl_multiuse_state(struct Curl_easy *data,
                          int bundlestate); /* use BUNDLE_* defines */
 
 /*