build: avoid overriding system symbols for fopen functions

By introducing wrappers for them in the curlx namespace:
`curlx_fopen()`, `curlx_fdopen()`, `curlx_fclose()`.

The undefine/redefine/`(function)()` methods broke on systems
implementing these functions as macros. E.g. AIX 32-bit's `fopen()`.

Also:
- rename `lib/fopen.*` to `lib/curl_fopen.*` (for `Curl_fopen()`)
  to make room for the newly added `curlx/fopen.h`.
- curlx: move file-related functions from `multibyte.c` to `fopen.c`.
- tests/server: stop using the curl-specific `fopen()` implementation
  on Windows. Unicode isn't used by runtests, and it isn't critical to
  run tests on longs path. It can be re-enabled if this becomes
  necessary, or if the wrapper receives a feature that's critical for
  test servers.

Reported-by: Andrew Kirillov
Bug: https://github.com/curl/curl/issues/18510#issuecomment-3274393640

Follow-up to bf7375ecc5 #18503
Follow-up to 9863599d69 #18502
Follow-up to 3bb5e58c10 #17827

Closes #18634

docs/internals/CHECKSRC.md

@@ -76,7 +76,7 @@ warnings are:
 
 - `EXCLAMATIONSPACE`: space found after exclamations mark
 
-- `FOPENMODE`: `fopen()` needs a macro for the mode string, use it
+- `FOPENMODE`: `curlx_fopen()` needs a macro for the mode string, use it
 
 - `INDENTATION`: detected a wrong start column for code. Note that this
    warning only checks some specific places and can certainly miss many bad